xiuhan + paris
May 22, 2013 | 5/22 Happy Wednesday! The weather report lied to me -__- by brooklynthunder on Keek.com
HI HELLO ANNYEONG
Maybe it’s not so much of a secret (to some people?) but I’ve been getting upset about all my friends having kids again lately. I got over it for a while but now it’s coming back. I feel like I really resent them sometimes. I can’t get pregnant like everyone else can, and I don’t know what it’ll take for me TO get pregnant. And I know some people will be like “well you’re 22 and don’t have stable employment or your own place to live so you should wait” but really? My friends (and I have a lot of friends) have 19 kids between them and 2 on the way, and I can guarantee that the majority of them that have had these children don’t have stable housing or income. It really burns me up, that people will try to tell me to wait, but don’t look at these people popping out baby after baby in much worse environments. The woman two doors down from me was already struggling to pay bills after 6 kids, but she thought it was a great idea to have 2 more, and let her 2nd oldest move her boyfriend in and pop out a grandchild while she was at it. But everyone wants to give me shit for being upset at being infertile at 22, okay! That’s why I keep it a secret now. Cause nobody gets that by the time my life stabilizes and I can afford treatments, the problem could be irreversible for all I know. I’m stuck keeping all that to myself, so sorry if I kinda went off. I don’t like being secretive about it but I was just tired of people telling me I shouldn’t feel that way, you know.
Oh for the love of god, shut up.. if you’re a man and you’re getting beaten up by a woman, you need to man up and learn to defend yourself.
if you’re a woman and you’re getting beaten up by a man, you need to woman up and learn to defend yourself.
After all, guns, knives, baseball bats, and self-defense classes are not given only to men.