HI HELLO ANNYEONG

Maybe it’s not so much of a secret (to some people?) but I’ve been getting upset about all my friends having kids again lately. I got over it for a while but now it’s coming back. I feel like I really resent them sometimes. I can’t get pregnant like everyone else can, and I don’t know what it’ll take for me TO get pregnant. And I know some people will be like “well you’re 22 and don’t have stable employment or your own place to live so you should wait” but really? My friends (and I have a lot of friends) have 19 kids between them and 2 on the way, and I can guarantee that the majority of them that have had these children don’t have stable housing or income. It really burns me up, that people will try to tell me to wait, but don’t look at these people popping out baby after baby in much worse environments. The woman two doors down from me was already struggling to pay bills after 6 kids, but she thought it was a great idea to have 2 more, and let her 2nd oldest move her boyfriend in and pop out a grandchild while she was at it. But everyone wants to give me shit for being upset at being infertile at 22, okay! That’s why I keep it a secret now. Cause nobody gets that by the time my life stabilizes and I can afford treatments, the problem could be irreversible for all I know. I’m stuck keeping all that to myself, so sorry if I kinda went off. I don’t like being secretive about it but I was just tired of people telling me I shouldn’t feel that way, you know.

WAIT WHY IS THAT VERSION OF THE SONG MISSING SO MANY MEMBERS…

p0ndorica:

it really pisses me off how people who are good at maths/science/history/etc are seen as the intelligent ones and will go far in life but also seen as the “boring” ones, but writers and artistic/creative people are seen as the interesting and talented ones but also unintelligent and doomed to be unsuccessful like shit bro how the fuck do any of us win 

rosalarian:

littlefroggies:

bisexual-community:

Common Myths About Bisexuality from the lovely Webcomic “Jesus Loves Lesbians, Too” by bi blogger & author Maria Burnham (writer/memoirist) and Maggie Siegel-Berele (comic artist). 

I usually don’t reblog stuff like this because this is my art blog but this hit close to home and reminded me of so many conversations that made me feel like garbage.

It always makes me see red when I see lesbians (and gay men) treating bisexuals this way. I don’t think I can even type too much more without quickly reaching a point where I just smash my head into the keyboard.

bba48:

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morice:

songs that have an amazingly catchy and cool tune but really uncomfortable lyrics

My cat fell off the couch 5 minutes ago and I’m still laughing

onjongho:

— SHINee; Key

sujukingdom:

Hyung has went into the training center. He has been suffering from back disc problems, so he went into the training center righteously to serve as a public soldier. But because of that reason, he wasn’t able to proudly enlist. He wanted to go in quietly, without saying farewell to fans, and without interviews with reporters.

The reason he had to go in like this was because of some people who have outrageous thoughts like ‘If you aren’t going as normal soldier, you are a(n) asshole/retarded/mentally challenged’, or simply because reporters and antis make it as an ‘issue’.

It was a result (being assigned to serve as public service) he received from a health examination at the same district office as others. What did he do so wrong, to receive all those attacking comments.. Do they feel superior by putting those attacking comments?

No matter what the reason is, I feel that celebrities get cursed if they aren’t going as a marine or commando. No matter if they are going as normal soldier or public soldier. People curse, saying they are serving as ‘celebrity soldiers’, ‘part of army band’, and ‘public soldier’..

If you or someone around you served as public soldier or ‘celebrity soldier’, would you curse at them like this? Or would you be jealous?

please do not reword any part of the translation
I only translated this b/c people asked…

Source: Jongjin’s Facebook
Translation by: @youngwoonjungsu

Shared at sujukingdom.tumblr.com by Soori